I wrote a message about that a while ago. This is bugged since the "button trigger only" event isn't working properly. The popups are still showing on page load and just addiotionally when the button is clicked.

s there a way to swap it
so the trigger button shows up first then click for pop up?

I don't want to trigger the popup when i open the site. just if i click on the trigger

set the pop-up to only appear when clicked